As my husband and I break free of our old patterns of behaviour, we throw ideas up into the air and see what pattern they form when they land. We do this often and see different colours, shapes and patterns each time. Perhaps our lives are like a kaleidoscope right now: brightly coloured, ever changing, and beautiful.
Amidst our changes, we are simplifying our lives and establishing more rituals and routines for our family. While we are craving change, our boys need stability and predictability. They need to know that quiet time follows lunch, they need to hear their dad ring his bike bell when he arrives home every day, they need to be asked the same questions at dinner every day: What was the happiest part of your day? Was there anything hard or sad? What are you grateful for? What are you looking forward to? These are the things that keep all of us grounded. These are the things that make us stronger as a family.
This journey began before our children were born. It began when we first dreamt of having children, it continued through the sorrow of miscarriages and the years of trying to conceive, through the birth of our boys and of ourselves as parents, and continues today and will continue tomorrow. In Birthing from Within, we identify the labyrinth as a powerful symbol of the twists and turns in our journeys. You can never get lost in a labyrinth, you will always reach the center and then come out again, but you never know where the turns will take you or how long it might take. I can see a labyrinth in my mind- beautiful, reassuring, comforting, and exciting. Can you see one?